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My child only listens to songs during online English lessons are they really learning English?

Sarah Emam

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Sarah Emam

TESOL-Certified English Teacher

Short Answer

Most likely, yes. At this age, comprehension (receptive language) comes before speaking; the child first listens and internalizes, then produces. Songs are very valuable language input thanks to rhythm, repetition, and patterns. What looks like "just listening" is actually the first and necessary stage of learning.

Detailed Explanation

Set your mind at ease: "just listening" is not a lazy form of learning at this age — it's the starting form. While your child listens to songs, they may be invisibly gathering the sounds, patterns, and meaning of the language.

Comprehension first, speaking later

In language acquisition, receptive language (understanding what you hear) develops before productive language (speaking). As literacy resources such as Reading Rockets note, children acquire a language first by listening; speaking is built on this listening foundation. So even if your child isn't speaking much yet, they may be actively learning by listening. This quiet stage is often called the "silent period."

Why are songs such valuable input?

Songs are one of the most powerful carriers of language for young children. Rhythm and melody make words easier to remember; repetition helps patterns settle in; and the ready-made phrases (chunks) in a song provide building blocks the child can later use as whole expressions. The British Council also counts songs and rhymes among the core teaching tools for this age.

Signs that they are learning

  • Humming the song's melody or catching some of the words.
  • Responding to simple instructions (clap, jump).
  • Noticing and reacting to a familiar word in daily life.
  • Over time, beginning to repeat single words or patterns.

To turn listening into learning

  • Add movement to songs; words matched with the body stick better.
  • Listen to the same songs repeatedly; repetition drives learning at this age.
  • Match the words in the song to everyday objects.
  • Don't push the child to sing; they'll join in on their own when ready.

Points to keep in mind

Songs are a strong start, but over time lessons should not consist only of songs; they should diversify with interactive games, simple dialogues, and visuals. If your child shows no response at all for a long time and doesn't seem to catch any words, it's helpful to share this with the teacher and review the lesson's level of interaction.

Expert Note — Sarah Emam

With my young learners, I often witness a child who has "only listened" for weeks suddenly sing an entire song one day. Those quiet weeks are not wasted; the child gathers it inside and then gives it back. Patience is the best teaching tool at this age.

Related Terms

  • Receptive language: The ability to understand what you hear; develops before speaking.
  • Silent period: An early stage in which the child listens to and internalizes the language while not yet speaking much.
  • Chunks: Groups of words learned as whole units in songs and expressions.

Sources

  • Reading Rockets – "Basics: Oral Language". Link
  • British Council – "How young children learn English through play". Link
  • University of Washington – "Social interaction plays key role in how infants learn language" (Patricia Kuhl, 2003). Link